THE FIRST DAYS

Many students approach me after finishing plus two & even after completing education for either branch selection or job selection.


Each kid is having own capability towards a particular field. Each kid has the zeal to achieve something which nobody has done. In Towns where a close environment is predominant, it is very difficult for a child to see the world as it progresses. In school, the child is forced to take first rank rather than the understanding concept behind subjects. School teachers let students utter & vomit same wordings as found in books. Thinking between the lines is less seen in schools. Unfortunately, some private schools have an extra effort for education with practical application, which lacks in public schools.


Majority of students are in public schools, these students have a target of getting high rank and getting progress card signed from parents as the goal. Parents & Teachers encourage the students who get the first rank and the last rank holder is considered dumb and dull student.


Consider a class where almost all students are brilliant, still the last ranked person is condemned in the society. Students develop inferiority complex which he is studying. He thinks himself as dumb and dull and hence his brain reacts.


In western countries the ranking system is not followed, instead, the grading system is followed. The Grading system restricts and divided the class into only 4 groups. which is far better than a 60 class students. We must develop a system where students enjoy studying instead considered it as a burden. This can happen only if the child is happy with the school. For a child to be happy, many factors are considered.


1) Home environment
2) friend circle
3) Teacher-student relation
4) physical appearance
5) Society, Culture


Considering all above, if we make sure our students are getting all above in a manner he should get. For sure he will excel throughout his life. Students should have full rights to select which course he should opt, instead parents forcing him to join a particular course. For a student to select a course he should have an outline/guidance from teachers and parents.


What we study and what we do at work is completely not related. As practical things always differ from theoretical things. What is suggest Schools/Parents is to have your kid lead a healthy life without the torcher of the ranking system and give him a life where he gets good friends and mentors.



Child - Gift of God

Yes, Child is a biggest gift of God, But how many of us know this? i have jotted down some basic data extracted from internet which i was really upset to read. Below is the image of suicide rate by countries.



The most affected country by the above image is China, which is considered to be the largest population in the world. The more the population, lesser the job and hence poverty and depressions comes along its way. But if we see the percentage of students committing suicide its more than what expected.

The adolescence age between 15 to 24 seems to be a difficult part of life, where a child from society enters a Adult age, chasing dreams, failure in schools, comparison with other friends,Love failure, parents care, facing pressure and not accepting failures are some of the main issues which a adolescence feel. Apart from all the external traumas physical hormonal changes. I think challenges we face in all the part of life but the weightage what we give to the problem is much more.A child needs always to be guided and must have a elder to whom he shares things which goes with his life. Sharing is caring and reduced internal stress.  

PARENTS PLAY A VITAL ROLE FOR UPBRINGING OF CHILDREN S.

DO NOT SCOLD CHILD, BUT WARM THEM, LOVE THEM. BUILT A TRUST AND SUPPORT THEM TO FIX AND ACHIEVE THERE GOAL. 

"The young face very high competition and pressure from families to succeed. Many parents think their child should come first in the class. Of course, that can't happen," said Dr. T.S. Sathyanarayana Rao, head of psychiatry at J. S. S. Medical College & Hospital in Mysore.

REMEMBER A CHILD IS WHAT YOU GAVE TO HIM, GARBAGE IN AND GARBAGE OUT. IF YOU EDUCATE YOUR CHILD NOT FOR A MERE TAKING A FIRST RANK, BUT TO BUILD WISDOM AND COURAGE TO FACE THE WORLD.

LASTLY I WOULD SUGGEST TO BE HUMBLE TO YOUR CHILD, YOUR CHILD WILL SAY  OUR COUNTRIES GROWTH....